All of us have fantasies that we wish we could experience. The problem with fantasies is that they are either experienced very rarely or never experienced at all – that’s why they are fantasies. But what if you had the experience of watching your fantasy come true right before your eyes? What if you gave someone a detailed outline of exactly how you wanted your fantasy to be – they designed it perfectly – and then you experienced it? Well, as I sit here with a grin on my face, I can happily say that is precisely what happened to me last night.

I was invited to Henrietta Hudson’s – a well-known lesbian bar in New York’s Greenwich Village. Ok, I confess, watching two ladies being intimate with each other excites me – so when I had the opportunity to go to a bar full of lesbians – why would I say no?

Before we got there, I was a bit concerned. I naively thought that the ladies at Henrietta’s might not like me because I was a straight man. I figured that they would not want me in a bar that was a hangout for women who liked women. It turns out that the ladies I met last night were some of the nicest people I have ever met. Friendly, funny, and just a real pleasure to be around.

After meeting everyone I began to check out the crowd around me and could not believe my eyes. Very rarely have I seen two women kiss in person – but last night – ladies were kissing ladies everywhere. I was on line for the bathroom and there were two girls in front of me kissing like a couple of teenagers. Then, some of the girls I met started to kiss each other. If that was not enough, they had a stripper for our friend Nicole because she is moving away. There I was watching a woman seductively strip for another woman while dozens more women were standing around me watching this and getting as excited as I was.

As I was experiencing this last night, and as I sit here and ponder over last night’s events now, the only way I can describe it was that last night was like walking into my own mind and my own fantasy. What I saw live and in front of my face last night was something I always wanted to happen but never experienced. In one word – wow.

But more then just the obvious excitement that I got from watching all that I saw, it was really nice to meet a bunch of new people and have them welcome me into their circle and except me as one of their own.

But seeing them kiss each other didn’t hurt either.